Are you a Hipster Catholic?

It is pretty easy to be a hipster Catholic.  Converse are not that expensive, beanies are easy to knit and fair trade coffee is far to easy to drink. 

There are amazing Catholic blogs out there, great Catholic books, fun Catholic apps, and phenomenal Catholic conferences.

Even Jesus can wear converse
Although we frame the word ‘hipster’ and stick it on the wall to admire as the most coveted of ‘coolness’ levels, I believe it is far to easy, at least for myself, to often forget about the day to day life of Catholic living.
So while it’s easy to wear Pinterest worth outfits and sip a latte while reading the newest Life Teen article, what does it look like to put that into practice?
To be honest, it’s kind of scary.
It means having to put yourself out there, trust God totally, and having to realize that some people may not agree with you.  Or, perhaps even realistically in today’s culture, most people won’t agree with you.  It means having to be informed about not only what you as a Catholic believe, but why you even profess that to be true. 
It means having to be in love with God. 
There is a growing trend to glamourize the Catholic life by making it appealing to the masses.  Pun slightly intended.  We amp up teen ministry as to make the Catholic faith seem appealing, trendy and worthy of cutting time out of our busy schedule for.  Value is placed on emotions and charismatic feelings so that people will ‘feel’ right about the Church. 
Rebecca Harding Davis, an American writer from the late 1800s wrote, “We don’t often look into these unpleasant details of our great struggle.  We all prefer to think that every man who wore the blue or gray was a Philip Sidney at heart.”  We shy away from openly talking about our temptations, the word accountability can seem like a crazy concept to us, and we dance around solid truths so as not to offend anyone.
It’s time to rub our face in the dirt of the earth and face the facts.  There is so much need for authentic faith in our world.  The reality is that over 80% of Catholics no longer identify themselves as Catholic by the time they hit their 23rd birthday.  That’s huge. 
If you put statistics like that into any other situation, it’s alarming.  If you’re traveling and your airline has a 20% chance of landing safety, what are the chances that you aren’t going to fly on that airline?  If you have a university with a 20% retention rate, things aren’t going to well for them.  If you have a 20% chance of passing a class, things aren’t looking up.
So why are we content and living with this statistic?  We watch each year as Catholic students walk onto a campus Catholic and four years later walk of the stage with a diploma and their faith far behind them. 
The subject of objective truth is so controversial you would have thought we were talking a crazy conspiracy – but that’s how the concept of absolute truth is taught. 
Making Catholicism ‘cool’ isn’t going to solve the problem.  We have to make Catholicism real and, even more importantly, a blatant presence in our daily lives. 
What does that look like in 2014?  First, living our faith.  And not just the parts that we’re comfortable in.  It means putting yourself completely in God’s hands and letting Him write your story…without you editing as you go along. 
It means lovingly guiding those who are in a state of confusion concerning the teachings of the Church.  Saint Josemaria Escriva once said “Don’t you long to shout to those youths who are bustling around you: Fools! Leave those worldly things that shackle the heart – and very often degrade it – leave all that and come with us in search of Love!”
The Church has incredibly beauty to her teachings.  All of them. And most of them aren’t discussed.  Why does the Church believe what She believes about contraception, homosexual marriage, social justice, morality, truth and authentic love? There is a reason for each belief, and none are culturally accepted.
Yet Saint Toribio said, “Christ said, “I am the Truth”; he did not say “I am the custom.” 
Are haters going to hate? Heck yes. 
In fact, Christ gave us ample warning about what we are going to face.  John 15:18-21 says, “If the world hates you,<sup class="crossreference" data-cr="#cen-NIV-26718A" data-link="(A)”> keep in mind that it hated me first. 19 If you belonged to the world, it would love you as its own. As it is, you do not belong to the world, but I have chosen you<sup class="crossreference" data-cr="#cen-NIV-26719B" data-link="(B)”> out of the world. That is why the world hates you.<sup class="crossreference" data-cr="#cen-NIV-26719C" data-link="(C)”> 20 Remember what I told you: ‘A servant is not greater than his master.’ If they persecuted me, they will persecute you also.<sup class="crossreference" data-cr="#cen-NIV-26720E" data-link="(E)”> If they obeyed my teaching, they will obey yours also. 21 They will treat you this way because of my name,<sup class="crossreference" data-cr="#cen-NIV-26721F" data-link="(F)”> for they do not know the one who sent me.”

What do we do about this all this hatred? Shake it off?

I vote rejoice in it.  With the situations in the common culture today, what an incredible opportunity in which to reach out and show the true Catholic life.  Is it always a conversation? No – your life could be the only Bible people read.  Yet that doesn’t offer us an out or cop out excuse for not talking about our faith.  Is someone talking about how behind the times the Catholic Church is? Lovingly have an authentic conversation with them.  Don’t shirk away from a tough conversation.  Use those conversations to fall even more in love with a God who wants to see you find the easiest way to Heaven. 

And the way that is the sturdiest bridge between here and the next world? The Catholic Church.

Before it was cool.

God bless!

Chloe M.

A Thankful Heart: Day Four

Today I’m pulling the typical white girl card and saying that I’m thankful for Fall.
Or at least what’s left of it here in my city.  
On Tuesday the weather is supposed to be around thirty degrees.
So I’m thankful for sweaters without coats over them.
Fall leaves without snow dripping off of them.

Walks to class without freezing my fingers off.
Drives to work without snow on the road.
And general fall weather without the
nagging feeling that winter is just around the corner.

You were made for forever

On my ride home tonight, I was flipping through car radio stations and happened upon Ed Sheeran’s “Don’t” – a new song of his.  I don’t highly recommend the song…there is a lot of not-so-favorable messages and language mixed in with a funky beat (which seems to be the go to in today’s music.)

But while I was delving into the words of the song instead of just the sound, I found it.  There, hidden in the bass line and mixed around with the techno beat is a desperate plea.

A call for forever.

Because we were made for more.

For those of you haven’t heard the song, the premises is that the singer met a gorgeous girl more than a year ago, but she jumped out of his life as soon as she came in.  Then, just last week, she’s back. 

Why is she back all of the sudden? He thinks it’s because this lovely lady was “looking for a lover to burn.”

So, instead of realizing the temporary lust she is enticing him to, he “gave her my time for two or three nights.” Then he does what she did to him….walks out for a couple of months until it’s convenient for him to return.

You know humans were made for more than that, right?  More than a one night stand.  More than temporary lust. 

Sheeran’s chorus (the radio version, sans expletives) revolves around the fact that he doesn’t want to know “that.”  He doesn’t want to know that this isn’t going to last.  That this girl and him are only as temporary as the lust burns…and after those feelings are gone, they’re both out of each other’s lives, looking for another quick flame.

Verse two continues the destruction of both parties and the objectification of the human being, created in the image of God. 

Sheeran’s infatuation  continues.  He “only wanna see her” for a couple of weeks after they’ve gotten back together.  She moves in, they bond over their hectic schedules and things look to be going quite smashingly.

Until it happens.

The next guy comes in the picture.  He’s cute.  She likes him.  They kiss.  Sheeran is confused.  How could she do that when “she knows” that it hurts him?  Her new man and her go all the way, and only a short time later, there she is, at Sheeran’s hotel door.

She wants love.  She wants authentic, will-the-good-of-the-other-as-other love.  And he can’t give it to her.

Why?  His heart has been taken over by lust and selfishness.  He claims “Trust and respect is what we do this for” but at the same time, he uses this young woman’s body for his own pleasure, without regard to the immortal soul that dwells within it.

He says that he never saw this other guy as a threat…”Until you disappeared with him to have sex of course.”  Yet he fails to see the irony in the fact that, just a couple of weeks ago, he was doing the same thing with her that he is now irritated at this second guy for.

” And I wasn’t looking for a promise or commitment,  but it was never just fun and I thought you were different.”

It was never just fun.

We can tell ourselves quite good lies, can’t we? 

“Everyone’s doing it.”
“It’s okay…we love each other.”
“It’s nothing serious. Really.”

Really?  Your body is making a commitment that your heart and mind can’t keep without the commitment of marriage. 

So, in a sense Ed Sheeran is right – Don’t.  Don’t throw your body right after your heart in the battle against lust.  Don’t reject the beautiful plan God has for you in favor for a temporary satisfaction.

Maybe I’m just rambling.  Maybe this sounds like “Ah lahmlahlah” to you.  But you, regardless of your gender or age, religious affiliation or education level, were made for greatness.

The creator of the universe created you. 

If you ever question your worth…just don’t.  See what  I did there?

Si vis Amari ama,

Chloe M.